I don't like the idea of proxy and lazy loading. I don't need that. I want pure POCO. And I want to control loading associations explicitly when I need.

Here is entity

public class Post
{
 public long Id { get; set; }
 public long OwnerId { get; set; }
 public string Content { get; set; }

 public User Owner { get; set; }
}

and mapping

<class name="Post">
    <id name="Id" />
    <property name="OwnerId" />
    <property name="Content" />
    <many-to-one name="Owner" column="OwnerId" />
</class>

However if I specify lazy="false" in the mapping, Owner is always eagerly fetched. I can't remove many-to-one mapping because that also disables explicit loading or a query like

from x in session.Query<Comment>()
where x.Owner.Title == "hello"
select x;

I specified lazy="true" and set use_proxy_validator property to false. But that also eager loads Owner.

Is there any way to load only Post entity?