I am trying to connect to a mysql db on a shared server. I am using a java application to make the connection. Problem doesn't happen when I connect to localhost db.

URL = "jdbc:mysql://SHARED HOST IP:3306/DBNAME"; USER = "dbUSER"; PASS = "dbPASS";

Connection conn = DriverManager.getConnection(URL, USER, PASS);

java.sql.SQLException: Access denied for user 'DBUSER'@'mycomputersIP???' (using password: YES)

It is strange that it says denied for dbuser@ mycomputersip instead of dbuser@sharedhostIP

Is there a setting on my wireless router that is screwing things up?