I want a link to remote to have a rel tag, because I want to use facebox with it.

I had it working with a regular link to... but I needed the link to remote to handle the event that a user doesn't have javascript enabled.

this, currently does't work (except for the non-javascript part )

<%= link_to_remote "Ask a Question", 
            {:url => 
                {:action => :ask_question,
                :id => @container.id.to_s,
                :javascript_disabled => false
                }, :rel => 'facebox'},
            :href => url_for(
                            :controller => :view,
                            :action => :ask_question,
                            :id => @container.id.to_s,
                            :javascript_disabled => true) %>