Need some assistance in analyzing apache and php process running on linux server. Its a 8-core intel processor with 4GB ram. When the website on it runs the top displays like this.

  PID USER      PR  NI  VIRT  RES  SHR S %CPU %MEM    TIME+  COMMAND
23459 username1 16   0  151m  27m 8388 S 11.3  0.7   0:11.71 php5
23730 username1 16   0  151m  28m 8388 S 11.3  0.7   0:03.87 php5
23458 username1 16   0  151m  28m 8388 S  3.0  0.7   0:19.20 php5
16202 mysql     15   0  459m  38m 4624 S  0.7  1.0  62:33.81 mysqld
24141 nobody    15   0  311m 5832 2304 S  0.3  0.1   0:00.03 httpd

Why does the command say php5 when the website is accessed. Both apache and php was preconfigured so not sure whats done there. Tried setting up the same site and db on a different server but on it the process shows httpd always and not php5. The site uses mysql db.

The problem is server load seems to go till about 5.x when the website was access by about 16users. When the free -m command was given the output shows

             total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:          3941       3727        213          0        236       2734
-/+ buffers/cache:        756       3184
Swap:         4095          0       4095

Lots of memory seems to be in cache and free memory is less. Even when the website is not accessed that is leaving it very much idle for about 2days the free memory showed just 190. When the site is accessed the free memory seems to be go till 90mb then it increases to about 150mb. It always seems to remain just about 200mb. Is it somehow related to the server load showing 5.x. Will adding some more RAM resolve the load issue?