first of all:

• I don't use stackadmin or similar so please don't vote for moving there,
• I'm reading man top and paper "what every programmer should know about memory ..."
• I need really simple explanation like for retard ;)

Having following top dump:

top - 11:21:19 up 37 days, 21:16,  4 users,  load average: 0.41, 0.75, 1.09
Tasks: 313 total,   5 running, 308 sleeping,   0 stopped,   0 zombie
Cpu(s):  0.4%us,  0.6%sy,  0.9%ni, 96.2%id,  0.1%wa,  0.0%hi,  1.9%si,  0.0%st
Mem:  132103848k total, 131916948k used,   186900k free,    54000k buffers
Swap: 73400944k total, 73070884k used,   330060k free, 13931192k cached

  PID USER      PR  NI  VIRT  RES  SHR S %CPU %MEM    TIME+  COMMAND
 3305 tudb      25  10  144m  52m  940 R  6.0  0.0   1306:09 app 
 3011 tudb      15   0 71528  19m  604 S  3.3  0.0 171:57.83 app 
 3373 tudb      25  10  209m  93m  940 S  3.0  0.1   1074:53 app 
 3338 tudb      25  10  144m  47m  940 R  2.7  0.0 780:48.48 app
 4227 tudb      25  10  208m  99m  904 S  1.3  0.1 198:56.01 app
 8506 tudb      25  10 80.7g  49g  932 S  2.0 39.6 458:31.22 app 

I'm wondering what is:

• RES (my expl. physical memory consumption ? see 49GB)
• VIRT (memory mapped disk to cache? see 80GB)
• SHR (shared pages?)
• Swap: (is this cached label - for memory mapped disk into swap cache?)
• Should sum of RES give MEM: X used? or maybe sum of VIRT?