I'm having troubles connecting through SSH to my 1&1 account. When I try to connect with command

userXXX@host -p22 -vv

I have the following output:

OpenSSH_5.8p1 Debian-7ubuntu1, OpenSSL 1.0.0e 6 Sep 2011
debug1: Reading configuration data /etc/ssh/ssh_config
debug1: Applying options for *
debug2: ssh_connect: needpriv 0
debug1: Connecting to mySite.com [ip_here] port 22.
debug1: connect to address ip_here port 22: Connection refused

Moreover, once I try to connect through SSH and it fails, even the HTTP access is dead, I cannot access the website through explorer anymore :/

please help ><

I'm running ubuntu 11.10

EDIT: don't know if it can help, here's the .htaccess of the 1and1 server

Options +Indexes
Satisfy any
Order Deny,Allow
Allow from 212.227.X.X
Deny from all
RemoveType .html .gif
AuthType Basic
AuthName "Access to /logs"
AuthUserFile /kunden/homepages/43/d376072470/htpasswd
Require user "user_here"

and sftp.log:

Mar 26 09:21:24 193.251.X USER_HERE Connection from 193.251.X port 51809
Mar 26 09:21:30 193.251.X USER_HERE Failed password for USER_HERE from 193.251.X port 51809 ssh2
Mar 26 09:23:39 193.251.X USER_HERE Failed password for USER_HERE from 193.251.X port 51809 ssh2
Mar 26 09:23:41 193.251.X USER_HERE Failed password for USER_HERE from 193.251.X port 51809 ssh2
Mar 26 09:23:45 193.251.X USER_HERE Failed password for USER_HERE from 193.251.X port 51809 ssh2
Mar 26 09:23:57 193.251.X USER_HERE Failed password for USER_HERE from 193.251.X port 51809 ssh2
Mar 26 10:53:36 212.227.X tmp64459736-3228 Connection from 212.227.X port 23275
Mar 26 10:53:36 212.227.X tmp64459736-3228 Accepted password for tmp64459736-3228 from 212.227.X port 23275 ssh2
Mar 26 11:53:37 212.227.X tmp64459736-3228 Connection closed by 212.227.X
Mar 26 18:58:17 212.227.X tmp64459736-5363 Connection from 212.227.X port 23353
Mar 26 18:58:17 212.227.X tmp64459736-5363 Accepted password for tmp64459736-5363 from 212.227.X port 23353 ssh2
Mar 26 19:53:36 212.227.X tmp64459736-8525 Connection from 212.227.X port 5166
Mar 26 19:53:36 212.227.X tmp64459736-8525 Accepted password for tmp64459736-8525 from 212.227.X port 5166 ssh2
Mar 26 19:58:17 212.227.X tmp64459736-5363 Connection closed by 212.227.X