i use Adobe flash player in my site, and now i need to increment some filed in database, when user click on player. here is the script

<div id="conteiner" style="text-align: center;" ></div>
<script type="text/javascript">
            var s1 = new SWFObject("player.swf","ply","420","380","9","#FFFFFF");
            s1.addParam("allowfullscreen","true");
            s1.addParam("allowscriptaccess","always");
            s1.addParam("flashvars","file=<?=$video ?>");
            s1.write("conteiner");
        </script>

i deside to use ajax for it, but how can i write a function in the flash object? thanks in advance

UPDATE: i only have the swfobject.js file, which contains such data

if(typeof deconcept=="undefined"){var deconcept=new Object();}
if(typeof deconcept.util=="undefined"){deconcept.util=new Object();}
if(typeof deconcept.SWFObjectUtil=="undefined"){deconcept.SWFObjectUtil=new Object();}deconcept.SWFObject=function(_1,id,w,h,_5,c,_7,_8,_9,_a){if(!document.getElementById){return;}this.DETECT_KEY=_a?_a:"detectflash";this.skipDetect=deconcept.util.getRequestParameter(this.DETECT_KEY);this.params=new Object();this.variables=new Object();this.attributes=new Array();if(_1){this.setAttribute("swf",_1);}if(id){this.setAttribute("id",id);}if(w){this.setAttribute("width",w);}if(h){this.setAttribute("height",h);}if(_5){this.setAttribute("version",new deconcept.PlayerVersion(_5.toString().split(".")));}this.installedVer=deconcept.SWFObjectUtil.getPlayerVersion();if(!window.opera&&document.all&&this.installedVer.major>7)
...

and the player.swf, and the html, i've shown allready. i don't now is this flash player or no, and what can i do?